Mindstate Motivation Blog

You And Circumstances

What are your circumstances?  Or, put another way, how are things going for you in your life?  I’m serious!  Think very carefully and deeply about your answers to those questions.  The answers will tell you a lot about what you need to do to get where you want to go.

Let’s talk about that a little bit.  If your answers are other directed such as, “My circumstances are out of control.” your problem is you not your circumstances.  Your circumstances in life are only in control when your negativity is out of control.  Forget about outside influences!  Your solutions always lie within you not outside in them.

So…start changing things by focusing on what actions you can take.  Don’t despair in a quagmire of circumstances.  Pull yourself out of it.  If you don’t nobody else can help you.  Oh sure, they might try but their effort will be in vain because you choose to wallow in your misery.  The more you help yourself the more momentum you can gain from the help of others.

Just remember…it’s you not your circumstances that dictate the outcome of everything you do and that of your happiness.

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